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If you spend all day in a fish market, even if you haven't touched a single fish, you'll leave with the smell of fish on you; but if you spend a day in a perfume shop, even if you buy nothing, you'll leave smelling delightful. Your environment will always leave its mark on you. Being around people who complain will fill you with negativity; being around those who always make excuses will make it hard for you to change. But if you associate with action-oriented people, you'll be inspired to move forward; and being with those who are grateful will help you see the beauty in life everywhere. The "scent" of your environment will ultimately always accompany you.

The genes of the poor like to take care of others and enjoy helping people; The rich avoid dealing with incapable people to conserve their energy; The poor are cautiously generous, while the rich are generously stingy.

I will now try to avoid getting involved with overly complicated people and situations. When I encounter things I'm not interested in, I just want to close my ears, ignore them, and refrain from commenting. Everyone has their own issues, and sometimes living in one's own world is a form of self-protection. It's important to protect one's emotions, time, and energy.

Doing one thing well is the hardest thing in life, and also the easiest thing in life. The difficulty lies in the many temptations and the ever-changing environment; the ease lies in genuinely liking it and simply persisting.

The meaning of reading lies in allowing people to expand their own world by borrowing from the lives of others. Through books, you can understand different eras, lives, and thoughts in a short time, thus not being limited by your current environment, gradually forming an independent and clear understanding. It makes you realize that your confusion and emotions are not lonely, and there have long been deeper expressions and answers. Reading may not bring immediate success, but it can subtly shape your perspective, judgment, and demeanor, making you more composed, rational, and empowered to decide what kind of person you will become in a complex life.

The five most famous learning methods in the world: 1. Feynman Technique: Teach what you've learned to someone else; if you can explain it clearly, you've mastered it. 2. Simon Method: Define and break down learning goals; you can master any field in 6 months. 3. SQ3R Reading Method: Survey, Question, Read, Recite, Review. 4. Pomodoro Technique: Plan study and break times, with 25 minutes as a segment, set a timer. 5. Cornell Note-taking Method: Record, simplify, memorize, reflect, and review.

To be shameless and fearless is the only way to overcome all psychological disorders. Anxiety comes from wanting to control too much, depression comes from wanting to succeed too much, obsession comes from wanting perfection too much, hypochondria comes from wanting to live forever too much, and social anxiety comes from wanting recognition too much. ​​​

In my life, when I first fell in love, my parents disagreed; when I fell in love again, my wife disagreed; when I was confused in love, my children disagreed. When my appearance was acceptable, my values were not; now that my values are acceptable, my appearance is not. What a pity! When I was the right kind of person, I wasn't that type; now that I am that type, I'm not the right kind of person. I missed one step, and now I can't catch up!

What you really need is never a job, but a long-term stable cash flow that belongs to you. Work is a tool, not the goal; stable cash flow is the goal. For example, cash flow generated from rent; cash flow from dividends received once or twice a year; cash flow from dividend-paying funds, and so on. Of course, a stable job can also provide stable cash flow.

Those who can make money from trading speculation do not lack character flaws; rather, they possess significant flaws in their character. Anyone who can make big money in trading is not a normal person. Individuals with exceptional abilities are never normal; they either have quirks that leave others baffled, or their personalities are as cold as ice, or they are so stubborn that not even a hundred oxen could pull them back... In short, there are always one or two aspects of them that seem completely out of sync with those around them. What does it mean to be normal? Normal means being like most people, and most people are poor. Aren't you normal for being poor like most people? The so-called normal is essentially a synonym for mediocrity. In psychology and behavioral science, there is a term called convergence, which means that most people, for the sake of security, will naturally smooth out their edges to fit in. However, those who truly possess great abilities have long ignored this meaningless social cost; they do not need to fit in. The strangest person around you is often the one who achieves the most significant results.